What really happened with the words "please" and "Thank You"?

As I reflect on my mind Halloween is about children's behavior, the door to our request to Cam treaties.

My son answered the door bell and crew to provide the desserts. In the attack was over, he came to my side of the house to give me a briefing. There were many children - some of the neighborhood and some who grew up here in trucks and cars from a different part of town. Children are children, no matter where they come from, and all the love HalloweenSweets>. So do I.

What's most interesting to my son was the lack of manners fashioned good old only. He said the children were sweet and lasted only one candy each, but to no use asking them what we call "words magic. "The older group of children who came to the door, much less moral seems to show any kind. The last group of fifteen young - 14 or 15 years - especially girls and some boys. They wentin a frenzy over the candy basket, the crowd to see who could most quickly for the best. My son said it was like a tank of piranhas fight for a piece of meat in the tank. A boy stepped back, and if the girls had finished my son said: "If there's one left, maybe I have a request" E 'was the end of the evening and my son tipped the basket to fill the bag boy with the remaining dozen pieces of Reece's Pieces and Hershey. "You're the only one that has beenpatient and polite, and you're the only one who said, "Please." With that and a big smile, the boy said: "Thank you. Happy Halloween."

One of many?

What happened to manners?

In our house is expected to tell each other, "please", "thank you", "forgiveness" and "I?" and to represent other words, the reflection gratitude and respect. Every day we work with Jack to 4 years of these words, and we are very happy when they become a habitHe does not need to ask.

Growing up I was taught and who should say, "Yes, Ma'am and No, ma'am" and "Yes, sir, and no, sir", when it comes to an adult, and we knew best forgotten. I think that women and men are beautiful, but "please" and "thank you" are required.

There is no place that good manners are not suitable. In the home, school, work, play ball, trick or treat "- is the person who is fluent in" please "and" thank you "and" Happy Halloween "to take home the prize at the end. They are rude and impolite can be obtained at the time, but what good and respectful to the person who invited again.

Not self-improvement include the development and use of good manners and courtesy?